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Building an Exercise Routine {Self-Care Saturday}

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Welcome to Self-Care Saturday!  As I explained in this post, my goal this year is to focus on self-care.  Each Saturday I will be posting about different self-care topics to hopefully give you ideas to help you focus on yourself, and to hopefully keep me on track as well!  Today’s post is all about building an exercise routine.

January is probably the worst time to focus on exercise.  Everyone makes new year resolutions to lose weight and the gym is packed.  However, it is one of the areas of self-care that I really need to prioritize.  I’ve had a gym membership for almost a year and a half now.  I’ve been regularly using my membership (go me!) but I’ve been super lax about it.  I’ll take a class here or there but have not gotten into a routine or been very serious about going.

First, I know I need to choose exercise that I enjoy.  I prefer taking exercise classes over running in place on a treadmill for 30 minutes.  Even though I can’t dance for the life of me, I love the music in the Zumba classes.  As an Obliger (for those of you who are familiar with Gretchen Rubin’s Four Tendencies), I also respond well to an instructor telling me what to do.  She wants me to do 20 squats, I will do 20 squats.

Part of my goal with exercising is to lose weight. Although technically not overweight, I am currently at the heaviest weight I’ve ever been.  My sporadic gym attendance has not helped me get in shape and I know that overall, I am not as healthy as I can and should be.

 I’ve learned that an effective exercise routine includes both cardiovascular exercise and strength training.  While I hate that treadmill, I may have to overcome my adversity to it.  I’ve also read that as a beginner (yes, I’m calling myself a beginner) I need to aim for at least three 30 minute workouts a week, where I’m giving 100%.  So, my goal is to get to the gym at least three times a week.  “Too busy” is a myth and we make time for the things that we find important.  I need to prioritize exercise on my “important list” and truly make it a habit.

One week into January and I’ve made it to the gym twice (check!).  One day I did an elliptical-like machine for 25 minutes (I know, not the recommended 30 minutes!).  The second time I took a boot camp class.  This was the first time that I’ve ever taken this class.  Two days later and I am still sore ALL over.  This was a full-body workout that my body was not used to.  Although it was killer, I feel good, and I want to go back again next week! I honestly think I would have gone to the gym at least one more time but, “bomb cyclone” winter storm.

In addition, this week I started the True: 30 Day Yoga Journey with Adriene, from Yoga with Adriene.  This is a 30 day journey that you can start any time.  So far, I’ve done all four days.

If you don’t belong to a gym, I suggest checking out YouTube videos.  You can workout right in the privacy of your own home.  I personally have not tried enough of these workouts to recommend any, but if you have, please leave recommendations in the comments!

For some additional motivation, check out a fellow blogger friend Tanya’s post, “How an Avowed Exercise Hater Started Regularly Working Out.”

By putting it out here in the blogosphere, and holding myself accountable to you readers, I’m hoping that my Obliger self can stick to this exercise routine!

Here’s to getting in shape in 2018!  What does your exercise routine look like?  

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Five on Friday {The First of 2018}

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Yeah, it’s Friday!  It’s also the first Friday of 2018!  I love the start of the new year.  To me, it equals a fresh start and a year of possibilities.  While I stopped making resolutions years ago, I have decided that this year I am focusing on self-care and myself.  Although it was a short week of school for the kids, it was a rough one.  Staying up until almost 2 AM on New Year’s eve and then having to go back to school on Tuesday was a killer.  Luckily, (or unlucky!) they got to enjoy a snow day yesterday from the “bomb cyclone” that hit the East Coast.  We stayed nice and warm inside!  We have a pretty relaxing weekend and the kids will hopefully get readjusted to their regular schedules.  Here are five from this week!

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1. Reading –  I am currently reading I Am Watching You by Teresa Driscoll.  This is a mystery/thriller, right in my comfort genre and a great way to start my 2018 reading.  According to Goodreads, I read 90 books last year.  This year I set my goal for 75 book.

2. New Year’s Eve – Normally, we celebrate New Year’s Eve at home with tasty snacks and family game night.  This year, we had our monthly supper club on New Year’s Eve.  We had our annual pizza theme and cookie exchange with all the kids.  I made an eggplant parm pizza and my husband made a shrimp scampi pizza.  There was also a buffalo chicken pizza and a mussels fra diavalo pizza (and a plain cheese pizza for the kids).  It was a delicious evening!

3. Snow Days – There’s nothing like a snow day.  I know I loved the unexpected day off more as a child.  But even as an adult, I enjoy being forced to stay inside in comfy clothes all day, relaxing.  Yesterday was the first snow day the kids had this school year, and it was a doozy!  The winds were really bad and the temps are so cold right now that going out to play in the snow wasn’t even an option!

4. Instant Pot – My husband and I received an Instant Pot for Christmas.  I’m excited to learn how to use all the different features.  So far, my husband has made hard-boiled eggs and mashed potatoes in it this past week.  We are loving it!  If anyone has any Instant Pot recipe recommendations, send them my way!

5. Puzzle Time –  I haven’t done a puzzle in ages.  This year my son has become the biggest Harry Potter fan.  Santa brought him a Harry Potter puzzle and we (mostly me!) have been working on it.  I forget how relaxing it is for me to work on puzzles.  I sit and listen to a podcast and it’s just so enjoyable.

ICYMI this week on the blog:

Tuesday I shared more about my year of self-care.

Thursday I posted The Tweens Read December 2017.

I’m linking up with Andrea, April and Katie!  Have a great weekend!

The Tweens Read {December 2017}

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Here’s another monthly installment of the Tweens Read.  Each month I give a short summary of what my 9 and 11-year-olds have been reading.  If you are looking for new books for your own tweens to read, hopefully you can get some suggestions here.

READ BY THE 9-YEAR-OLD:

This past month  my son did an author study at school on Roald Dahl.  Most of his outside school reading was of various Roald Dahl books.

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Boy: Tales of Childhood by Roald Dahl
Published by: Penguin Group, February 1999 (first published 1984)
Pages: 176
Source: borrowed from classroom library
Rating: 3 out of 5

This is Roald  Dahl’s first autobiography, in which he writes about his childhood in England.  I have not read this book.  My son, “kind of liked it because I don’t really like autobiographies.”

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Danny the Champion of the World by Roald Dahl
Published by:  Puffin, June 1998 (first published 1975)
Pages: 205
Source:  borrowed from classroom library
Rating: 4 out of 5

Danny’s mother passes away when he’s a baby, so it’s just him and his dad.  He discovers that his father has a secret hobby, poaching pheasants.  Again, this is a book that I have not read.  My son liked this book and found it entertaining and funny.

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Going Solo by Roald Dahl
Published by: Puffin, April 2001 (first published 1986)
Pages: 209
Source: borrowed from classroom library
Rating: 3 out of 5

Going Solo is the sequel to Boy.  It’s Dahl’s autobiography of his time as a World War II pilot.  Again, my son wasn’t the biggest fan of this book because he doesn’t enjoy reading this genre of books.

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James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl
Published by: Puffin, April 1996 (first published 1961)
Pages: 144
Source: borrowed from classroom library
Rating: 4 out of 5

Although James and the Giant Peach is the sixth book that Dahl wrote, it’s one of his more well-known earlier works.  Even I’ve read and enjoyed this book and the movie with the giant peach and the talking insects! My son liked it because, “their adventures are extreme.”

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The Missing Golden Ticket and Other Splendiferous Secrets by Roald Dahl
Published by: Puffin Books, September 2010
Pages: 128
Source: borrowed from classroom library
Rating: 4 out of 5

This short book contains both fiction and non-fiction works.  It includes a chapter about Miranda Mary Piker, one of the children who didn’t make it into the original Charlie and the Chocolate Factory.  There are also more tales about Roald Dahl’s life, a quiz and some recipes from Mr. Wonka’s Chocolate Factory.  My son liked it because, “it has cool recipes  for truffles and butterscotch” (which I did not know about and we did not try making).

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The Wonderful Story of Henry Sugar by Roald Dahl
Published by: Puffin, October 1988 (first published 1977)
Pages: 240
Source:  borrowed from classroom library
Rating: 4 out of 5

This book is a collection of seven short stories.  I had not even heard of this book before my son brought it home to read.  He really liked the title story, because, “it is cool that Henry has the power to (kind of) cheat at casino games.”

READ BY THE 11-YEAR-OLD:

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Every Soul A Star by Wendy Mass
Published by: Little Brown Books for Young Readers, October 2008
Pages: 322
Source: borrowed from the library
Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

This middle grade fiction book is about three different teens Ally, Bree and Jack.  They are brought together by a viewing of a solar eclipse at Moon Shadow campground, which ends up changing their lives.  The chapters alternate being told from the perspectives of the three different characters.  My daughter has read several books by Wendy Mass and is a fan.

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The School For Good and Evil (The School For Good and Evil #1) by Soman Chainani
Published by: HarperCollins, May 2013
Pages: 488
Source:  purchased from Barnes & Noble
Rating: 5 out of 5 stars

This is my daughter’s favorite book series.  Having purchased the second book in the series earlier last month, she decided to re-read the first book.  Best friends Sophie and Agatha are kidnapped and brought to the School For Good and Evil.

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To Look a Nazi in the Eye by Kathy Kacer with Jordana Lebowitz
Published by: Second Story Press, September 2017
Pages: 256
Source:  received copy from publisher
Rating: 3 out of 5 stars

Daughter’s Review:  This book was very interesting.  It is an account of a war trial against Oskar Groening, a SS guard in World War II. 19-year-old Jordana Lebowitz found herself being swept into the confusing and curious trial of Groening that claims he helped to kill more than 300,000 Jews. Jordana was ultimately not prepared for what she would encounter and see on her adventure. Jordana understood she would access knowledge by seeing history before her eyes and that she would have to pass this knowledge onto the next generation of learners. I recommend this book for ages 9+ because of the complexity.

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Speed of Life by Carol Weston
Published by: Sourcebooks Jabberwocky, April 2017
Pages: 320
Source: received copy from publisher
Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

Daughter’s Review: This book was also an interesting book. It is about a 14 year-old-girl named Sofia who goes through the struggles of losing her mom, her dad getting a new girlfriend when she is not ready to get over her mom yet, and just being a teen. Her friends help her but when a long time goes by, they are concerned. When Sofia discovers Dear Kate, a column for girls, she now feels she has someone she can talk to for advice. When her Dad introduces her to his new girlfriend, who seems very familiar, Sofia’s life takes a whole new direction. I recommend this book for ages 10+ because of some rude humor, and awkward topics.

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Uglies by Scott Westerfeld
Published by: Simon Pulse, February 2005
Pages: 425
Source:  purchased
Rating: 4 out of stars

I read this series over five years ago and enjoyed it enough to own the first three books.  My daughter decided to read this first one and liked it as much as I did.   This is a dystopian YA book where everyone is considered “ugly” until age 16 when they get a surgery to make them “pretty.” Tally Youngblood is about to turn 16.  But her new friends Shay and David show her the not-so-pretty side of being a “pretty.”

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A World Without Princes (The School For Good and Evil #2) by Soman Chainani
Published by: HarperCollins, April 2015
Pages: 433
Source: we own
Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

This is the second book in The School for Good and Evil series.  Sophie and Agatha are back home but are whisked back to the school.  There they discover that everything has changed and instead of good vs. evil, it is now girls versus boys.

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Year of Self-Care

Happy New Year!  2018 has arrived!  The past two years I picked a word for the year (happy, growth).  I used that word to help me try to live intentionally.  Honestly, I’m not sure how well they worked.  In lieu of choosing a word this year, I am vowing to focus on myself and practice self-care.  Like myself, I know many of you are probably super busy, tired and under-appreciated. I realize that I spend so much timing making sure everyone else in the family has everything they need that I don’t always prioritize myself.  This year, I have big goals for myself and to help me achieve them, I have to make sure that I am physically, mentally and emotionally healthy.  Each month,  I will be sharing a self-care post focused on one specific area.  I will be sharing resources and ideas that have or will hopefully assist me on my quest.  Throughout the year I will be working on all of these areas, but will be doing a monthly post focused on each.  I would love any resources or tips you have in the below areas to help me on my journey!

Exercise

Marriage

Diet

Decluttering/Organizing/Minimalism

Blogging

Reflection

Fun

Relaxation

New

Family

Gratitude

Home

These are loosely in the order I will be posting about them on the blog in future “Self-Care Saturday” posts.  Is anyone else interested in a year of self-care?  I hope you join me on this journey in making 2018 a great year!